"Being a good son is most definitely an admirable goal. After all, I wish to be a good child for my parents -- though I do worry sometimes about whether my choice to take up a career in Starfleet instead of the Expeditionary Group has caused them some sort of displeasure. But... perhaps the only way to know that is to ask," They saw it as a good opportunity to bond, let those around them know that they had struggles the same as everyone else, even if they seemed to be in such a position of power. They were still only human -- or rather, only Vulcan.
They were about to argue, state that it was only logical for the higher-ranking officer to pay in this situation, but his second statement caught them off-guard. It was interesting, of course, that someone would feel so comfortable around the station deputy, comfortable enough to say something such as this, but it made their own job of integration all the more easy. "As long as your quest does not effect your duty I offer you no judgement," they assured in an even tone, "As for myself, I hope to become an adequate station deputy. I was a first officer for a time, and this is my first position on a Starbase Proper, so it will take some getting used to," they finished with a nod.